the past few weeks, he's been acting a little strange...he messaged me two week ago saying his life was bothering him alot (stress from quitting his second job and his first job piling on more work. he might be switching jobs all together and both of his cars need major work too) so he asked if he could take some space to think about things. he also told me that he'd talked to his sister about us and told her that he wasn't sure what he wanted to do with his life (what job he wanted, if he wanted to move to chicago, etc) so he was hesitant to get into a committed relationship just yet..his sister told him that it was a good thing that he knew he wasn't sure..I gave him the space but he did call me twice during those two weeks just to see how I was doing and to say hi
last sunday, he showed up to my oldest daughter's birthday party..stayed the whole time and played with my kids (he got her a gift too)..he told me during the party that things were better and he'd just needed to think. we made plans to go out again last tuesday...we hung out last tuesday and had a great time..he told me he was happy to be spending time w/me again and when we first got to the bar we play quiz night at he hugged me tight for a long time and said "let's just hold each other for awhile"...when we said goodnight, he hugged me tight for a long time and said "It's so nice to be hanging out again"
we went out again last night w/two of my friends (both girls)..we went to a sushi restaurant and it was fun. he sat close to me and rubbed my back alot. while we were waiting for my friends to get to the restaurant, we walked into the pizza place next door to check it out and he said "we'll have to come here the next time we go out to eat"
as we were saying goodbye, I tried to hug him tight but after a few second he said "ok, well I should get going" but then he asked me what I was doing tonite and tomorrow....I told him tonite was free and he said to message him to see what was up..
I did message him earlier today to ask him if he wanted to see a movie I rented for us off of netflix (he asked me to) and he messaged back saying "i'm not sure. I am going to work in a few minutes. I will let you know. I might take the night off"
while I'm cool with just wanting to relax and chill on occasion, I'm starting to get a bit annoyed at how he seems to kind of blow me off sometimes..what should I do?!!Should I stop talking to him?
Talk to him about how you truly feel. If, and only if, you truly want to break it off, go ahead.Should I stop talking to him?
you NEED to stop AXING(I MEANT TO SPELL IT THAT WAY) that question! depressing to say the least!
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