Friday, February 17, 2012

What is the REAL Meaning behind him being mad at me?

I've known this guy for about 6 years now %26amp; I met him in a town I lived in for college. We were friends %26amp; eventually dated for a while %26amp; became intimate too. I moved back to Chicago where I'm origionally from back in 2008 %26amp; me and this guy kept in touch, but not as often %26amp; I told him I would come back and visit him %26amp; stuff, but never showed up because of money wise Or conflicting with my job schedule. Well, a week ago, I finally came to town for my college friends' Birthday%26amp; I tried calling him twice to let him know, but he didn't answer. I texted him that I'm at a Restaurant in town %26amp; I told him I was there for my friend, etc. %26amp; He said Let's hook up %26amp; hang out. I told him I Will call him %26amp; let him know as soon as I leave her Party because I had to drive back to Chicago for work the next morning %26amp; it was getting late %26amp; I was short on time, so there was No guarentee I Will see him. I Eventually drove back %26amp; didn't see him %26amp; 2 days later he textes me in the morning %26amp; says "Don't call me Anymore" So My Question %26amp; Concern is Why would he Care... If Me %26amp; Him are "Just Friends" %26amp; he's used to me not coming down to visit him when I say I would, Why all of a sudden he gets mad %26amp; show emotion??What is the REAL Meaning behind him being mad at me?
First off, when you moved back to Chicago, or when you would talk, did you explain to him that due to your job and money, you may not make it back as often as you would have liked. When you texted him at the restaurant, did you make it clear that you would like to get together but due to time, you may not be able to do so. When you left the restaurant, did you contact him and explain that you wouldn't be able to meet after all as you needed to get back home and it was a long drive? If you didn't contact him with viable explanations, this is the reason he probably feels slighted. You need to look at your behaviour and ask yourself would you want a friend who treated you as you have been treating him?What is the REAL Meaning behind him being mad at me?
Because you aren't "just friends"... you said yourself that you were intimate way back in the day. That changes the dynamics, permanently, and just because you say you are "just friends" doesnt mean the initimacy never happened. and basically you got his hopes up, of seeing you, then you ditched him. Sorry hon, but he is basically saying to you to not call him anymore. Good luck.
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