Boyfriend trouble... ASAP?

This is my situation...



(I'm a freshman)



Boy 1- He is my current boyfriend, he is a year younger than me. We've been dating for about a month, and we are slowly starting to talk less and less. When we first started dating we talked on the phone for hours at a time multiple times a day, and now we're lucky if we talk once or twice a day for fifteen minutes. When we first started dating we didn't know each other that well, and somewhat still don't. We have SOME stuff in common, but not a lot. He has also told me he loves me and it's only been a month. Plus, his Ex girlfriend keeps trying to break us up in any way she can, and since they still talk I'm starting to not trust him as much. We can't hold a conversation worth ****, and a week before we started dating he told his ex he still loved her ( they were together for 6 months) Also whenever his name pops up on my phone, of hearing his voice I don't get the same butterflies that I used to.





Boy 2- He is in my grade, and obviously the same age. We took a class trip to Chicago last year and he was on my bus. He usually sat in front of me, or since we'd all sneak around on the bus, he sat with me a few times. We'd talked on and off before the Chicago trip, but since we rode the same bus we talked A LOT. On the trip we all went to: A museum, some shitty restaurant, Medieval times, Navy Pier, and a zoo. the only times we weren't together were at the museum and the restaurant. We had gotten to know each other quite well, and practically inseparable. We have some stuff in common, and we get along awesomely and can hold a conversation. A few weeks after the trip we were talking on Facebook, and he said "----- I really like you, in Chicago we got along so well. We get along great and your really nice and funny and pretty" (something along those lines) Also whenever I see him I get a warm feeling, or whenever I see his name pop up on my phone for a text message, I get butterflies. I also find myself thinking about him at timesBoyfriend trouble... ASAP?
date boy 2 before sombody else doesBoyfriend trouble... ASAP?
i hate to say it but it is most likely boy 1 is cheating on you, im sorry but if you say hes talking to his ex loads and he told he loves her its obvious. WHere as boy 2 has definatly shown great intrest in you, i would say he fancies you alot, dont do it too hastily but i would say you should probably dump boy1 and try and get with boy 2 but make sure you dont cheat, even if you know its temporary its still wrong. a good way to do this is too try and get more distant with boy1 while at the same time flirt loads with boy 2, make sure when you dump boy1 you tell boy 2 straight away, maybe cry on his shoulder or sumin like that, just make sure he knows your single, and make it obvious you like him and he will definatly ask you out. hope it turns out ok :)