Am I being unreasonable?

My boyfriend and I planed a trip to Chicago for next week. One of the motivating factors was that his good friend lives out there and we could hang out with him. We are going to six flags and a cubs game with him. We are only going to be there for 3 1/2 days. I made it clear from the begininning that I wanted to go to a play and a nice dinner while we were there. Now, yesterday he comes home and tells me that his friend has taken everyday off work while we are there so he can hang out with us. When I expressed that I didn't want to spend every minute with his friend and I wanted to do things alone with him he got mad and we got into a big fight. He told me that he thought HE was going out there to hang out with his friend. I even told him 2 weeks ago that I did not want to do everything with his friend and now he's mad b/c I don't want his friend to go to the play with us and dinner (we havve reservation at a very romantic restaurant. The plates are about $150 a piece.) AM I wrong?Am I being unreasonable?
Give him his space, its only 3 .5 days of your life and it will mean so much to him. Just go and enjoy the 3.5days unconditional, the reward will more then likely be greater then the meal!!!!
YES, you are in the wrong........... it's his friend, his friend's town, and yes his friend has priority to you..... come on, it's his life long friend.... but Yes, you are in the wrong..... you need to give him his time with his friend... why make such a drama fest out of this.... you are an embarrassment to us women.... so wonder some men, think badly of women, give him a break... and back off.... was it worth a big hissy fit fight?Am I being unreasonable?
Yes and no. You r going to a play and dinner, just the 3 of you. Not the romantic night you planned.



Why don't you cancel the reservations and go somewhere else for dinner?



Also, tell your b/f that you will hang out with his friend and not cop an attitude; HOWEVER, make sure your b/f agrees that he owes you a trip somewhere that you two can be alone.



Chicago is great, and you may want to plan some time alone (like shopping on Michigan Ave) while he and his friend are hanging out. Maybe his friend has a girl friend you can hang with for a few hours.



Look, your boyfriend made plans and you feel left out. Just make sure the next trip is more to your liking.



ENJOY CHICAGO!
Ok No you are not being unreasonable because you discussed this with him before. If you had just all of a sudden told him then I would have sided with him but to be honest he should want some time alone with you since you are staying for an extended period of time. On the other hand if you don't want it to be a relationship breaker then you might want to back down to the request. Only you can decide that.
find yourself another boyfriend, this guy is a loser.